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Sich ausleben und immer wieder Neues entdecken? Einander Halt und Geborgenheit geben? Was davon l\u00e4sst Beziehungen gelingen?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wissenschaftlich gut belegt ist, dass wir besonders diese beiden Pole mit jeweils einigen Aspekten brauchen, um lebendige Beziehungen zu f\u00fchren:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Sind diese Dinge einfach durch ein bisschen Abwechslung zu bekommen? Heute kuscheln, morgen Kletterwand? Nicht ganz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eEs ist kompliziert\u201c, wenn verschiedene Charaktere stark zu einem der Pole tendieren \u2013 und sich in ihrer Beziehung nur um diesen k\u00fcmmern. Und richtig komplex wird\u2019s, wenn wir bereits unsere Partnerwahl auf fehlende Teile und Kindheitserfahrungen<\/strong> gegr\u00fcndet haben.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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