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Gerade einmal 10 % unserer&nbsp;<strong>zwischenmenschlichen Probleme<\/strong>&nbsp;existieren, w\u00e4hrend wir sie erleben.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sabine und Roland B\u00f6sel haben an mehr als 3.000 Paaren und speziell unter der Lupe der&nbsp;<strong>Imago-Methode<\/strong>&nbsp;gesehen, wie viel sich zum Positiven ver\u00e4ndert, wenn wir die&nbsp;<strong>90:10-Formel<\/strong>&nbsp;verstehen und im Alltag ber\u00fccksichtigen. Wenn wir uns fragen, woran uns das, wor\u00fcber wir streiten, in Wirklichkeit erinnert. Warum wir \u00fcberreagieren oder Mauern bauen. 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